All the work
Seeing as he hardly talks to me unless I contact him and when I do see him he doesn't tell me anything unless I ask him direct questions - I occasionally log on to find out what he's thinking. Sometimes I get some clues this way.

When he's offish towards me I scan my memory to think of what it is I've done to cause this. This is a character flaw of mine. If I was a better person I wouldn't give a shit.

He reminds me of someone else who always seems to make others do all the work of communication. When I ask him a question, he makes a noise/ gesture which could equally be yes or no. I have to ask him again to see what he means. He is oblivious.

I'm sick and tired.